DISTRACTION

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Okay! lets be honest, we all wanna be unique, successful, famous, appreciated etc. At least, once in our lifetime. That’s pretty much the only reason, most probably, that we wake up everyday and decide to excel in things that are given at hand.

But, do we always actually find happiness or satiation in the things that we do?

NO, RIGHT?!

There are so many  people in the world and I don’t even wanna quote the number because I don’t want it to be influenced by an evil eye ( I’m superstitious XD) and I pretty much believe that this COVID-19 thing is just providing some sort of ease to people who were concerned about the planet due to population explosion.

Okay!! enough of talking about the most talked about thing right now! That’s just not my stuff you know. I hate being mainstream. (I did that because I wanted some kind of recognition! XD)

So, everyday we all just wake up and do what’s necessary. We all have certain goals in our mind. Big or small. Maybe some of you aim to get admission in good colleges, some want to uplift their current financial position, some want to get back in shape, some want to start their own business, some want to expand it, some just simply pray for the well being of their family members and so on and so forth. In the end we all want our desires to get fulfilled and for that we decide how our actions are going to be to get what we want.

We all know what we got to do to get what we want. We all know what are the possible ways that would bring us closer to our goal. So, yeah despite knowing the things that we should be doing, we oftentimes fail to act the way we are supposed to. Right?

Why? Why does that happen? You know what is right for you, you know what you are required to do to get the desired result, right? Then? What is coming in your way, hmm?

Is DISTRACTION that word that’s coming off as a hindrance? Yeah?! Supposedly the ‘villain‘ in the stories of people’s life, which never lets them achieve what they want to, right?

I guess its high time that you get a reality check? It’s not the distraction that’s the villain but it’s your reaction towards it after it arrives. What I wanna tell you is that to err is human. We all get lost sometimes and that’s okay.

We are just human beings and we are supposed to react to anything that comes across us. We are designed like that. We are not some robots made to do a work in a pre told systematized system. And hey! I’m not saying that it’s bad if you are doing things in a systematized way. I wanna make you believe that maybe that is the correct way to reach your goal but I’m confident that that’s not the ‘only’  way out. There are plethora of paths you can choose to achieve what you desire.

Our brains are wired differently then why do we follow the same path? You never know that the thing you consider as ‘distraction’ might be a blessing in disguise. Just keep your mind open and understand what is it really trying to tell you. Nothing is good or bad for that matter. You just have to analyse whether that thing will uplift you physically, emotionally, financially, socially etc.

If Yes, then why not explore it? If No, then you already know what to do.

Now, the Time that you take to analyse whether or not this distraction is of any use is the time that will make you Wiser and who doesn’t want to become Wiser? This decision will decide what kind of life are you going to lead.

What I personally feel is that these hindrances and distractions are something that make our life all the way more adventurous, worth living and obviously beautiful. Who wants to live life like a robot? And The Day you Decide to Invest in the ‘distractions’ that only serve for your betterment, You will evolve as a human being!

It is these distractions which make you realize what your true capabilities are? How well you manage to get the required result when there is sudden entry of obstruction?

It’s not the fulfilment of the goal that makes us happy.  It’s the path we’ve taken, the people we meet along the way, the obstruction we face, the feeling of victory that we derive when we overcome the obstructions or move past them without getting distracted, for that matter. It’s the amalgamation of each and every thing which we have crossed our path with, that makes the fulfilment of our goal a happy experience!